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Saturday, December 21, 2019

News Release: Evergreen Psychological Services Notifies Patients of Security Incident

EVERGREEN PSYCHOLOGICAL SERVICES
14351 B Torrey Chase Blvd.
Houston, TX 77014

NEWS RELEASE – FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

EVERGREEN PSYCHOLOGICAL SERVICES NOTIFIES PATIENTS OF SECURITY INCIDENT

(HOUSTON, Texas – November 1, 2019)  Evergreen Psychological Services has announced that it has notified approximately 4,174 individuals of an unfortunate recent break-in event that may have affected certain patient protected health or personal information. While Evergreen Psychological Services is not aware of any actual or attempted misuse of patient information related to the incident, it has notified affected individuals of information about the incident, steps taken in response, and what individuals can do to help protect against fraud and protect their information. 

Between the hours of 7:30 p.m. on September 16, 2019, and 8:30 a.m. on September 17, 2019, a physical break-in occurred at the offices of Evergreen Psychological Services. Two desktop computer towers were stolen from the offices of Dr. Robert Schindler and Billye Cheryl Schindler, MA, LPC, RPT. When the office opened on the morning of September 17, 2019, staff became aware of the intrusion, and that theft immediately was reported to law enforcement. Two sheriff deputies arrived within fifteen minutes to investigate.
     
One of the two computers that was stolen was used for patient billing purposes, and as a result, it may have contained some personal information of patients. The process of identifying the scope of the theft is ongoing. Evergreen Psychological Services has determined that the following data was stored in a data set accessible by the billing software contained on one of the two computers that were stolen:

  • Social Security number (if required by insurance);
  • address; 
  • telephone number; 
  • date of birth; 
  • diagnostic codes (if required by insurance); 
  • session dates; 
  • payments; and 
  • insurance company ID numbers (if insurance was billed). 
While Evergreen Psychological Services has no evidence that anyone accessed or acquired any protected health information, access to the information on the workstation computer or email accounts cannot be ruled out at this time. No physical treatment charts or patient files were stolen.

To address the theft, Evergreen Psychological Services has been working with the vendor that supplied its Medisoft billing software that contains the aforementioned data. Based on communications with those who have technical knowledge of the software used for patient billing purposes, Evergreen Psychological Services has been informed that it will be very difficult to access the data because the login and password information needed to access that software was not stored on the stolen computers. As such, Evergreen Psychological Services believes that there is a low likelihood of re-identification.
   
Evergreen Psychological Services takes the security of patient information in its care very seriously. Evergreen Psychological Services launched an immediate investigation into this incident. This has involved a time consuming, manual review process of patient files to determine those individuals who were included in the computers’ billing software program or related files. It is unknown whether any protected health information (PHI) that was contained on one of the computers has been viewed.

To prevent further thefts, Evergreen Psychological Services has received feedback from the Harris County Sheriff’s Office, its licensing boards, and legal counsel provided by the American Professional Agency. Measures will include, but are not be limited to, installation of an upgraded security system with a camera (already installed since the theft), additional door locks and restraints, and ongoing protective measures for cybersecurity. Evergreen Psychological Services also has enlisted an IT specialist to assist it in ongoing efforts.

Evergreen Psychological Services encourages impacted individuals to take appropriate measures to help prevent misuse of personal data, including the following:

  • Place a fraud alert on credit report by calling the toll-free number of any of the three major credit bureaus (listed below). By establishing a fraud alert, impacted individuals can become aware of and help prevent an identity thief from opening additional accounts in their name. When a credit bureau confirms a fraud alert, the other two bureaus will automatically be notified to place alerts on the credit report, and all three reports will be sent to the individual free of charge. Contact information for the bureaus is as follows:
    • Equifax: 1-800-525-6285; www.equifax.com; P.O. Box 740241, Atlanta, GA 303740241  
    • Experian: 1-888-EXPERIAN (397-3742); www.experian.com; P.O. Box 9532, Allen, TX 75013 
    • TransUnion: 1-800-680-7289; www.transunion.com; Fraud Victim Assistance Division, P.O. Box 6790, Fullerton, CA 92834-6790 
  • Order credit reports. Establishing a fraud alert will cause impacted individuals to receive a follow-up letter that will explain how to receive a free copy of the individual’s credit report. Once an impacted individual receives the credit report, the individual should examine it closely for signs of fraud, such as credit accounts that are not related or authorized. 
  • Continue to monitor credit reports. Even if a fraud alert has been placed on an account, impacted individuals should continue to monitor their credit reports to ensure an imposter has not opened an account using personal information.  
Evergreen Psychological Services is committed to providing quality care, including protecting personal information, and sincerely regrets any inconvenience that resulted from these criminal acts. Evergreen Psychological Services has established a toll-free number that impacted individuals can call, at 1-833-9351345 between 8:00 a.m. and 8:00 p.m. CST, Monday through Friday, excluding major holidays, to discuss any concerns or questions about the potential loss of personal information.

Friday, November 23, 2018

Written by: Jack Kornfield



Love vs. Attachment



The near enemy of love is attachment. Attachment masquerades as love. It says, “I will love this person because I need them.” Or, “I’ll love you if you’ll love me back. I’ll love you, but only if you will be the way I want.” This isn’t love at all – it is attachment – and unhealthy attachment is rigid; it is very different from love. When there is attachment, there is clinging and fear. Love allows, honors, and appreciates; attachment grasps, demands, needs, and aims to possess. If we examine our attachment with compassion, we can see how it is constricted and conditional; it offers love only to certain people in certain ways—it is exclusive. Love, in the sense of metta, used by the Buddha, is a universal, non-discriminating feeling of caring and connectedness. 
We may even love those whom we may not approve of or like. We may not condone their behavior, but we cultivate forgiveness. Love is a powerful force that transforms any situation. It is not passive acquiescence. As the Buddha said,
“Hatred never ceases through hatred.
Hatred only ceases through love.”
Love embraces all beings without exception, and discards ill will.
One of the most important questions we come to in spiritual practice is how to reconcile service and responsible action with a meditative life that fosters non-attachment, letting go—one that sees the emptiness of all conditioned things. Do the values that lead us to actively give, serve, and care for one another differ from the values that lead us on a journey of liberation and awakening?
To consider this question, we must learn to distinguish between the four radiant abodes, the description of the awakened heart —love, compassion, sympathetic joy, and equanimity—and what might be called their “near enemies.” Near enemies may seem to be like these qualities and may even be mistaken for them, but they are not fundamentally alike. The near enemies depict how spirituality can be misunderstood or misused to separate us from life.
Wise spiritual life brings us to true connection. Instead of attachment, it grows with dedication and care, commitment and courage. It fosters genuine love (rather than attachment), compassion (rather than pity), joy (rather than jealousy), and equanimity (rather than indifference), and each of these beneficial qualities infuse our awareness. They enable us to open to and accept the truth of each moment, to feel our intimate connectedness with all things, and to see the wholeness of life. Whether we are sitting in meditation or sitting somewhere in protest, that is our spiritual practice in every moment.




Wednesday, November 21, 2018


TAKEN FROM:  CAROLINE MYSS






Except for the Grace of God Go I



I remember hearing that spiritual prayer of acknowledged gratitude over and over again while I was growing up. And I certainly heard the nuns say it. As a child, I loved the sound of that phrase because it was a phrase that seemed to hide a great jewel of wisdom. It was a type of treasure chest made of simple words that when strung together communicated a powerful truth. “Except for the grace of God go I.” It was apparent that those words conveyed some sort of profound meaning because I noticed how the nuns would nod their heads in a type of collective agreement after one of them uttered that phrase. Eventually I let go of my mission to crack through the deeper meaning of this phrase and got on with the business of growing up. I was about eight-years-old when I made that decision.
That phrase exploded out of the dust of my mental archives in my early thirties, right on time you might say. It was just one of those days, really, that starts out gorgeous but ends up being a game changer. That day was made for walking. So that's what I did. After a few hours, I got an iced-tea and sat on a bench to check messages and all that sort of thing. I didn't pay any notice at all to the guy who sat on the bench a few minutes later. Why would I? But, as I was about to find out, certainly noticed me.
He asked me if I would get him an iced tea. One glance told me he was homeless or en route to that crisis. I asked him if he wanted a sandwich, so long as I was getting him a cold drink. He did. I turned to leave as soon as I gave him his meal but then he said he hated to eat alone and would I mind just sitting with him. I was uncomfortable as all get out - I mean down to the pit of my stomach. But I was in a familiar park and it was day light and I knew I could run faster than him...so I figured, ugh....okay. UGH
He took one bite out of his sandwich, one gulp of his drink and said, "I know you want to get the hell away from me. I know you are uncomfortable as hell right now. You don't know me or anything about me. I'm a veteran. The war in my head won't stop. I just try to find quiet places now. That's all."
My heart hurt. I could feel the pain in my chest explode. My eyes filled with tears and all I could hear in my head was, "Except for the grace of God go I." I could have been sent to harm others or to face some type of horror. Or I could have witnessed nightmares early on, but I did not. I sat next to him and felt the whole of my life reshape itself into a simple but deeply meaningful prayer of gratitude and one of grace for the other. It is these moments, these tiny encounters that just show up out of nowhere, that are the purest expression of God in the small and present details of your life. This man changed my life. I have looked for him many times in the park near my home and have never seen him again - not to imply that he was "not of the Earth". We have yet to cross paths again, but I hope it does happen.
Through him, I entered into yet a deeper mystery about life but with so much gratitude about each day of my life. This is one of my own prayers:
I never know where I will find You or how You will speak to me. Some days it is through new person and other days it is through a new experience. Each day I become more aware of something I did not understand or realize before. I knew I should be grateful for all that I have but now I realize I should also be grateful for all that I do not have. For I do not have traumatic war memories and I do not have scars from being a refugee and I do not have the fear of a homeless person. I am grateful for all I have and for all I do not have. If I am grateful for having been spared a suffering, give me the grace to help those who are suffering. Amen”

Monday, November 19, 2018

REMEMBER...

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
Let us be grateful for our blessings!

Wednesday, September 19, 2018

CHILDREN'S REACTION TO DIVORCE


CHILDREN’S REACTION TO DIVORCE



INFANTS TO 2 YEARS

A.      Largely unaware of divorce and often unaffected if primary nurturing adult remains consistent.

B.      2-year-old children may react negatively (see next item).



2 TO 4 YEARS

A.     Regress, revert to diapers and being fed.

B.     Some experts say that removal of the opposite sex parent may be detrimental to sexual development.

C.      Removal of same sex parent (with whom the child may have been in unconscious competition) may cause the child to fear he actually “wished” the parent away.

D.     Fantasy of parents remarrying combined with attempts to reunite parents (i.e., joining their hands together).



3 TO 6 YEARS

A.      Feelings of fear, helplessness and instability.

B.     Regression to infant-like behavior

C.      Problems with sleeping and eating

D.     Failure to understand divorce due to rigid views of Family as 2 parents and children

E.      Wonders: “How can a parent love a child and leave the family?”

F.      Fears: “if one parent left, maybe the other one will, too.”

G.     “Me” centered developmental stage leads to feelings of guilt.  These feelings are often stronger at this age than others but may persist unless faced and conquered.



6 TO 8 YEARS

A.      An especially critical stage.

B.     Fears starvation and abandonment: “Who will take care of me?”

C.      Especially sensitive to parents’ attitudes (bitterness, sorrow, etc.)

D.     May try to be good so parents will reunite.  This allows him to feel he has some control over a chaotic environment.

E.      May try to become the missing parent/adult in another effort to gain control over a confusing and mixed-up situation.

F.      Feelings of guilt (especially strong up to age 7) may cause child to deny the reality of the divorce or to offer unrealistic explanations for the divorce.



8 TO 12 YEARS

A.     May demonstrate physical problems, irritability and demanding behavior.

B.     Directs feelings of anger at both parents, especially at the one he/she currently views as the initiator (one to blame) of the divorce.  Often is critical and blaming.

C.      Directs anger toward siblings and peers, which isolates child just when he most needs support from others.

D.     Occasionally tries to reunite parents with bad behavior which may require the parents to cooperate with each other.  (i.e., poor school performance).



12 TO 18 YEARS

A.      Often has difficulty due to the “rebellious: developmental stage.

B.     May be harsh, unsympathetic and may critically withdraw from one or both parents.

C.      Sometimes takes sides with one parent and becomes trapped in a loyalty dilemma.

D.     Later, may try to comfort each parent, in turn (“parenting the parents”).

E.      May try to act as a mediator and attempt to talk parents into a reconciliation. 

F.      Embarrassment may lead to denial of divorce to outsiders.

G.     Poor self-esteem and questions of personal “loveableness” sometimes lead to acting out or promiscuous behavior.

H.     May take a generally pessimistic view of marriage as a life style.